Understanding how to bring a woman to the most fulfilling and powerful orgasm possible is a combination of a number of elements. Knowledge of female anatomy, understanding of the mechanism to stimulate her effectively as well as employing the best techniques to achieve this. However, even with all of these present a woman still has to have the right mind-set or open-mindedness in order to achieve a full body orgasm.

It is up to you as her partner to enable her to feel comfortable enough to 'let go' and allow herself to be engulfed by this type of climax including ejaculation. The mechanism to achieving this is as I have already alluded to, a combination of a number of factors. If one of these is not present you and your partner may become frustrated and this will inevitably prevent her from achieving the desired effect.

The mechanism and tips for achieving a massive female ejaculation

1. Stress - or lack of it. Ensure you and your partner have a relaxed and suitable environment in which to practice and be comfortable. Children, telephones and TV are not conducive to providing the best environment. You have to make time for yourselves.

2. Mindset - If either you or your partner are at all uncomfortable with exploring your sexuality more deeply you will find this journey fraught with frustration and disappointment. You both have to be 'open' to exploration and acceptance of the reality of achieving such a powerful orgasm.

3. What is the correct technique or mechanism for achieving female ejaculation? - Once your partner is relaxed and in the right frame of mind you should have already employed some foreplay to arouse your partner. She will be more receptive to you entering her with your fingers once she has achieved a certain level of arousal. Of course you will be able to recognise this by her body movements as well as her vagina becoming increasingly wet. This will allow you to enter her with two fingers. Ensure you do not have any hang nails or rough skin! Enter her vagina slowly and with finger tips upwards. Use your two fingers to move inwards and upwards and you will feel an area of her vagina that feels different to the rest. It is a patch about the size of a walnut and is slightly bumpy. This is her G-spot. Massage this firmly with your two fingers in a 'come here' motion. You should curl your fingers upwards towards you, as she becomes more aroused this area will become enlarged.

4. Once you have mastered the two finger 'come hither' technique your partner should start to feel as if she may want to urinate. This is her paraurethral gland, akin to the male prostate as it becomes more stimulated. Reassure her that this will pass and if by chance she does urinate do not admonish her for it as you may never again find her receptive to any experimentation! To help ensure this does not happen it is a good idea for her to empty her bladder before foreplay begins.

5. Some women enjoy the use of specially designed G-spot dildos or vibrators that can help take some of the guess work out of actually finding the G-spot!

6. Be patient. It may take some time for her to understand her own body too. Once she is close to orgasm she must 'push out' as if to urinate, not hold back as this will prevent the ejaculation. If she is too scared to push out as she starts to orgasm the ejaculate will disperse into her bladder not outwards through her urethra.

Whatever technique you and your partner discover together to achieve female ejaculation you will need to practice and understanding of the biology and mechanism of achieving ejaculation will only enhance your lovemaking. Above all you both need patience, perseverance and a willingness to relax and let it happen.