How to spot a player
There are many key indicators to spot a player. The ones I will tell you about are in my opinion the most obvious ones. Something I learned at a young age ‘you only get to make one first impression’ so when you meet a man was the first thing he said to you the truth or a cleverly constructed lie that you let play because you thought he was good looking.
1. The first on this list is simple
If he began with dishonesty he is dishonest
If he began with honesty he is probably honest
Some men however feel they need to lie to trump themselves up to impress you, this would be the only exception. I will let you be the judge on this one. This next one may seem like an obvious one but it’s important and it is
2. If he has more than one cell phone something is up

I am not talking about having a work phone, home phone and a cell. I am talking about multiple cell phones anything over three cell phones he is either dealing drugs or is a player or both.

3. If he doesn’t give specific’s
If he doesn’t give specifics about what he does for example where he works and if he has any family and he is very mysterious but not in that dreamy James bond type way. Something should say red flag to you.
4. If he tells you when and when not to call.
Telling you when to call or appearing caught off guard when you do call. Test him out show up a few times at his work for a surprise lunch and that will give you the answer you need.
5. They have to many female friends
Having a healthy group of friends should consist of a fair amount of both sexes male and female. If you notice that he surrounds himself with women only this should raise a flag not to mention if the women look a lot like you. You could be his newest addition to his collection.

A man is not a player unless in my opinion he tries to use your emotions against you to get what he wants which is usually sex sometimes money. Don’t forget we’re only talking about going on a date or maybe two this isn’t a lifetime commitment. The other thing I wanted to mention was that you may have meant a man who had two out of the five flags I mentioned above and he might have turned out to be a great guy. Nothing in this world is an exact science this list is only meant to protect you from being preyed upon.

Sometimes like I said above men lie because their afraid to tell the truth this doesn’t make them liars only insecure. When you start off any relationship with honesty it will almost always lead to good things. I leave you ladies with one last little tid bit. If you’re at the state in the relationship where things are physical and you haven’t seen his home. You’re probably being played.

Bryce

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