I believe that no man in the world exists that would ever want to be called a boring lover. It is also very hard to believe that women would spend their lives or even just one night with a “stallion” with such a reputation. Consequently, we're here to help you with a a lot tips on how avoid such a “mark” on your back. Here is 5 things that women actually hate in their sex life:

1) Don’t be overcareful
Asking things like “can I?” are NOT sexy. They just kill the mood. A good lover controls the woman and knows their next step and how to prepare her for it without any questions asked. Sometimes it's enough just to look in “undressing” way or a provocative touch your girlfriends’ body to give a signal for sex. Sometimes girls need to be tossed around gently and shown that you cannot control the passion you have for them.

2) everyday sex
Most women would agree that sex without any passion is boring, just a time spent with no particular reason. No woman would like to* become an “inflatable woman” (perhaps only with a very little exception). I’m not alleging that everytime you have sex you have to be tremendous, but just don’t ignore the fact that every woman wants to be a “woman” and it's always a good idea to keep that in mind. Be sensitive and every once in a while, you need to make love to your girl, not just "fuck her".

3) Monotony
If your girlfriend or wife know every crack in your ceiling - you're in a huge trouble. But don’t panic yet. A simple change of a place will help you out. Try doing it in your bathroom, kitchen, your car or even on a beach (of course find a place with no viewers), the possibilities are endless. Charge up your imagination.

4) Moaning and talking
Too loud moaning as well as too quiet is irritating for women. The silence is also not an option. You have to play careful here. Try to find the “golden middle” and to express your feelings to your girlfriend but not to all the neighbors. Try not to use all the same words during the sex as well, try to find phrases how to say how sexy she looks, how great she is in bed you don’t have to repeat all the same three words, which we all are so afraid of.

5) Unwillingness to experiment
If you are in a long-term relationship, don’t be afraid to experiment. Sex life does get boring, and there is a lot you can do about it. Try different positions, role-playing give a freedom to your fantasies. Do whatever you want to if your partner agrees with it, and if it would spice up your love life all the better. Do not be afraid to bring up certain things, this is a relationship and you trust each other. We give you some advice in a second on how to bring these up ;)

Discuss your sexual fantasies with your partner over a glass of wine, and I promise you will be surprised how fast you will turn these fantasies into a reality.

These are the main guidelines on how you can improve your dull sex life. Women are not always seeking Casanova de Seingalt in every man. They just want you to make an effort to your relationship.

Remember that the opposite of “boring” is exiting and unforeseen, so if you try from time to time to surprise your better half, you will not be in trouble. The most important thing is that you'd have a partner who would be willing to change for you too.