I think it's time that I, Bryce X. take the gloves off.
For too many years, I have watched many men get flat out RIPPED OFF by this so called "Dating Community." My last newsletter asked the simple question, "What does it mean to be successful with women?" As I expected, all of the guys who emailed me back told me that they wanted to get laid, PERIOD!
So why are these videos on YouTube getting hundreds of thousands of hits that are entitled "How to get a girls email in 10 seconds" or "How to seduce women via email." My favorite is this NLP non-sense. This positive affirmation garbage would be funny, but the people selling it are making tons of money!
Honest guys who just want to learn how to get laid are paying such a high cost for these tapes, seminars, DVDs etc... Not just in dollars, but also in years of their life playing head games with girls, trying to manipulate her into sex.
Let me break down the dating industry the way I see it. They all have one thing in common:
• Guys teaching cheesy techniques to get a woman's email address or phone number
• Guys selling lessons on NLP, positive reinforcement, affirmations
• Guys trying to change their personalities
• Selling courses on palm reading and magic tricks to approach women
• Trying to be original all of the time (how sad)
• Telling guys they need to dress like fruit cakes to get noticed by women. "Peacocking"
• Indirect openers / routines
• Telling stories to impress women that are fiction and trying to pass it off as original
• Selling courses on reading a woman's body language.


If you are reading these words, chances are you own one or more of the programs mentioned above. All of these programs have one major thing in common... can you guess it?

They all lack honesty!

It's that simple. If you didn't notice that, you need a slap every time that women are complaining to girlfriends about not being able to find a nice, honest guy. Some of these programs may have helped you out just a little, but trust me when I say they have hurt you in more ways than they have helped you.

Most of my students have purchased these crappy programs and I find I have to spend additional time with them just to talk them out of this mindset. Some guru's will go on for hours and hours talking about what a woman's thinking. Stop doing that!

I have been receiving lots of emails from students of other "gurus," telling me about the importance of positive affirmations. For those of you who don't know what that is, this is when you visualize your success by repeating positive phrases and so on.

Let me ask you, which of the following is more powerful?
1. Teaching a man methods to control fear of approaching women via NLP, hypnosis and putting her down to build himself up;
2. Teaching a man that there was nothing to be afraid of in the first place

The latter is much more liberating.

I am not telling you anything you haven't already figured out. Think of it like this: The programs I mentioned above are just teaching dirty communication. When you are honest, your body relaxes. When you lie your body tenses up. Those of you who are familiar with "muscle-testing" will know what I'm talking about.

How much simpler do you want it? I teach honesty as a form of clean communication. I walk up to a woman and tell her the first thing that turned me on about her. For example, "I think that dress makes your thighs look so sexy." I am telling her the truth! I am not some dating instructor wearing a thousand dollars in clothing and a $2500 watch. I only invest two things when I meet a woman. They are honest honesty and my time. Those are two very valuable things, because if you don't think your time is valuable... nobody will!


Bryce X